I have a good mind (and I'm actually in a good position too) to prolong the heated arguments between friends and supporters of Mica Ocampo and the YONIC love team. I can make more noise, and try to create hotter gossip and controversy about this issue, and I have every right to do so too, because this site is my web site, after all. But why would I want to do that?
I spent some time thinking earlier today, reading the comments as they came in by the dozens, all from different people expressing how they feel about the way Mica is feeling right now, how Josef and Nicole and acting like inside the house, and a host of other things that should not have been an issue if things didn't get out of hand like they did. Well, I'm done thinking about this scenario and all of the possibilities that might occur afterwards, so I'm taking time tonight to throw out a big apology to all parties involved straight from the heart. I'm really sorry that all this had to happen, and I'm hoping that things can still be patched together, if anything got broken in the first place.
On behalf of all the readers and commenters, I'd like to say a heart-felt sorry, Mica. I didn't mean for any of this to happen, and I certainly don't want anything bad to happen to you and your relationship with Josef. I admire you for your courage and your strength. Just keep staying strong because there are people like me who are ready to support you.
Don't worry about all of the haters who are currently bashing you. They don't know what you're going through. And trust Josef with all your heart, it's going to take all of it if you're ever going to make it issue alive. Just stay strong for those who love you, whether they are outside or inside the Big Brother house. You never know, Josef just might be praying to God, thinking of you before he goes to sleep each night. Surely you can understand why he needs some body contact while he is inside the house; he's probably just missing you. And once he gets out everything will go back to normal.
I really do hope everything goes back to normal between the two of you. I think there's no reason why there should be any problems once Josef's time inside the PBB house is up. For now, just keep on supporting him and praying for him to win. You wouldn't want to lose your darling boyfriend to lose now, would you?
And as one of my site's readers cleverly points out, Josef is probably just channeling his feeling for you towards Nicole right now, because in essence if you two are really in love before he went inside the house, you can't expect him to just stop feeling anything for you and stop wanting to love you. And since you're not there, he's trying to spend time with Nicole, since she might be the only who comes the closest to your characteristics. Let me quote the clever comment by PBB Fan:
EXCUSE ME.. REACT KAYO NG REACT.. BUT WE DON'T KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE INSIDE THE HOUSE.. I IMAGINE THEY ARE LONELY SINCE THEY DON'T SEE THEIR LOVED ONES.. MAYBE THAT'S Y THEY WOULD GET ATTACHED TO SOME1 INSYD THE HOUSE.. JUST TO LESSEN THE PAIN OR LONGING.. WAG NAMN KAYONG I HATE JOSEF.. I HATE NIKKI.. DON'T U THINK UR BEING UNFAIR 2 THEM..? WLA CLANG KA MALAY2X SA MGA PINAGSASABI NYO.. TIRA KAYO NG TIRA.. SINISIRAAN NYO CLA.. EH SO WAT IF JOSEF LYKES NIKKI OR VICE VERSA.. IT'S NOT LYK THEY'RE GONNA GET MARRIED OR ANYTHING.. D NMN CLA NAG "I LOVE U" SA EACH OTHER.. AND DEFINITELY NOT KISSING EACH OTHER.. SO DON'T FRET GUYS.. THEY MAY JUST BE FORMING A SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP.. BUT THAT DOESN'T EXACTLY MEAN NA BF-GF.. MAYBE NKAKARELATE LNG CLA W/ EACH OTHER.. THAT THERE ARE CERTAIN QUALITIES IN EACH OTHER THAT THEY CAN'T FIND SA OTHER HOUSEMATES.. I'M GONNA ASK U GUYS.. WOULD U HANG OUT W/ SUM1 UR NOT ENTIRELY COMFORTABLE O YUNG COMFORTABLE KA? DBA? AHH BSTA.. WATCH NLNG KAYO.. WE DON'T KNOW NMN ANONG MANGYAYARI AFTER.. AND BESIDES EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.. AND I DON'T THINK NIKKI OR JOSEF ARE FLIRTS.. THEY JUST LIKE TO HANG OUT WITH EACH OTHER.. PWEDE NMN MGING FRIENDS ANG GUYS AT GIRLS DBA..? I KNOW DI TLAGA MAIWASAN MG SELOS.. BUT WAIT NLNG WHEN THE 2 OF THEM ARE OUT SO THAT U GUYS CUD TALK PRIVATELY.. W/O THE WHOLE WORLD TWISTING THINGS AROUND.. SO EVERY1.. LETS JUST KEEP SILENT AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS.. :)
He might be right, and he might be wrong. But for now, it's really too early to judge. All I can say is keep your head up and don't worry that anything bad might happen. It's a contest anyway, so the Josef and Nicole will definitely not last like the way they are right now inside the PBB house. Don't you remember that saying about war tactics? It says, "Keep your friends close; your enemies, closer." For all we know this is just what Josef is doing, and will immediately drop Nikki off given the right time and opportunity.